How do we understand what motivates people to do well?
First, we all need to feel valued and supported at work.
We want to feel valued both personally, and professionally.
Personally, we want to feel that we matter. We want to feel seen and heard. We want to feel that we contribute in some way, and that leads on to how we like to feel valued at work.
How do we respond when someone hurts us? If someone’s behaviour causes us discomfort, it seems like the most natural thing in the World to react negatively to that person. But, if we start to look at this a bit deeper, this type of understanding begins to break down and starts making less sense.
You don’t have a problem making decisions – you have a problem with your relationship to psychological time.
Psychological time is the way we think about the past, present and future.
Here are 44 things that if I could go back in time, I would tell my younger self. They might just provoke your thinking.
1. Confidence comes after, not before. What you need is courage, not confidence.
From surviving, to thriving in business with an open mindset. Working as a coach with small businesses, I’ve often found some recurrent themes of what helps some businesses thrive, and some survive.
Affirmations are a common tool for building self-esteem, confidence, and creating a life of abundance. In my work as a Life Coach, I help people find a deep sense of wellbeing, freedom, purpose, and fulfilment, and affirmations is at times, one of the areas that we explore together.
Starting up as a Life Coach in Dorset, I offer Life Coaching face to face in the Wimborne, Poole, and Bournemouth areas. And also online in the UK, and anywhere in the World. If you think Life Coaching might be for you, read on.
We all have natural skills, talents, strengths, or gifts. We just might not know what they are yet. I invite you to nurture these skills. To hone these talents. And to step into what makes you more powerful by honouring what you have been gifted.
People often ask me what the difference is between therapy and coaching because I used to work as a therapist.
Depending on who you ask you will get very different answers.
I wasn’t always an entrepreneur.
I used to work in corporate banking.
In fact, I was pretty good at it.